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Why Parenting a Child with ADHD Can Be Hard on Your Marriage: Part 1

Parenting a child with ADHD places unique demands on couples. Differences in parenting styles, communication, emotional regulation, and past experiences often become more noticeable under the stress of daily life. Many moms are surprised to discover they're struggling not only with their child's behavior but also with growing tension in their relationship. In this post, I explore why ADHD can magnify existing relationship patterns, how parenting triggers unresolved experiences from our own childhoods, and how therapy can help parents become more connected partners and more regulated caregivers.

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How Giving Kids Choices Can Reduce Anxiety: A Parent's Guide to Building Confidence and Emotional Regulation

Could giving your child more choices actually reduce anxiety? When children have age-appropriate opportunities to make decisions, they develop confidence, independence, and trust in their ability to handle challenges. Learn practical ways to use choices at every age to support emotional regulation, reduce anxiety, and help your child build resilience.

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Why Your Child Is Bored All Summer (And Wants Screens All Day)

Summer freedom sounds wonderful, but for many children it can lead to increased anxiety, emotional outbursts, boredom, and family conflict. Learn why some kids struggle without structure and how parents can support emotional regulation while still enjoying summer.

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Considering ADHD Medication? A Gentle Guide to Working with a Neuro-Affirming Psychiatrist

If you’re considering ADHD medication and aren’t sure where to start, you’re not alone. Many women begin exploring this option after years of feeling overwhelmed, burned out, or misunderstood. This guide walks you through what it’s like to work with a neuro-affirming psychiatrist, what to expect during an ADHD evaluation, and how medication decisions are made collaboratively—without pressure. Learn how ADHD presents in adult women, how anxiety and ADHD often overlap, and how to find supportive, personalized care that respects your experience. Whether you’re curious about diagnosis, treatment options, or simply want clarity, this post offers a grounded, compassionate starting point.

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Walk and Talk Therapy

What are the benefits of walk and talk therapy? And how can it support the therapist-client relationship.

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Why isn’t My Child Motivated? How Can I Support Them?

Parents often worry about how to get their child to be internally motivated. This article provides some reassurance for parents, normalizes the need for being rewarded, and provides tips on how to build internal motivation for kids.

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Online Engagement and Mental Health

If the world feels overwhelming it is important to consider your relationship with social media and how it is impacting your mental health. Tips and ideas for improving your relationship with social media, the news, and online discourse.

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Asking For Help and Getting Support

Everyone deserves help and support. Asking for help can be hard. Use these tips to make asking for help easier and get the help that you need.

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